Delight left Nigeria in March 2025, not because she didn’t love home anymore, but because sometimes love is just not enough, and there comes a point where the hunger for more becomes so strong. Like thousands of Nigerians chasing the promise of “greener pastures,” her japa journey was a calculated leap toward a brighter future. She shares an honest account of fitting into a new culture, the emotional toll of starting over in a new country, and the subtle feeling of not belonging that often defies simple explanation.
Delight, who currently lives in New York City, USA, noted that moving marked the beginning of a completely new chapter in her life.
What were the main reasons you decided to relocate?
“The decision was driven by a mix of opportunity, a desire to reunite with family, personal growth, and a long-term vision. I wanted exposure to better systems, broader global perspectives, and room to stretch beyond the limits I felt at the time. It wasn’t about escaping home; it was about expanding possibilities. I’ve also shared more of this journey in a video on my YouTube channel, ‘Homa Delight Emmanuel’, for anyone interested in a deeper look.
Was it a sudden decision, planned, or somewhere in between?
It was a planned decision, and the process took quite a long time because of some setbacks. Still, I’m glad it’s behind me now. All thanks to God Almighty and the kind Angels in human form. The best part of this journey so far has been discovering my resilience, realizing I could rebuild, adapt, and thrive even when everything felt unfamiliar. It also taught me patience.
What were the best and worst experiences in your new country of residence, and did you find a community that made the transition easier?
I’d say the hardest part has been the cultural adjustment, from accents to social norms, finding healthy friendships and community, especially as an ambivert. Thankfully, my family truly is a whole village, and they’ve made my transition so much easier, and I’m incredibly grateful for that.
I honestly haven’t had any particularly bad experiences yet, at least none that stand out, and I pray it stays that way.
Tell us about the challenges faced in finding work. Did you have to start over professionally?
Professionally, everything felt new. Moving to a different country meant adjusting to a completely different system. Since I transitioned into a new field in healthcare, I had to take certified courses and learn new skills. My previous experience didn’t always translate on paper, and that was humbling, but it pushed me to grow.
What skills helped you navigate the transition?
Adaptability, emotional resilience, and the ability to learn quickly were essential. I also leaned heavily on self-belief, faith, and the Nigerian work ethic, that quiet determination to keep going even when things feel uncertain. I learnt two skills in Nigeria that I’m yet to professionally put into practice and earn from. One is IT, and the other is a beauty skill.
How has the journey been so far?
The journey has been layered; amazing, uncomfortable, rewarding, and stretching all at once. There have been moments of doubt, but also moments of great pride. Every phase has added clarity to who I am and what I want. I know with God, hard work, commitment, and consistency, it’ll only get better.
Do you ever feel homesick? What do you miss most about home?
Absolutely. I miss the warmth, family, familiar food, even though we cook Nigerian dishes here from time to time, it never quite hits the same… and converting prices at the African market is a whole different experience lol. I also miss the effortless sense of belonging and being around people who truly understand culture. There’s something about home that grounds you in a way no place else can. I wish people understood how emotionally taxing it can be. It’s not just paperwork; it’s waiting, uncertainty, financial pressure, and constantly having to prove yourself. Immigration requires patience, resilience, and strength that often go unseen. As they say, “If you’re not ready for the time, don’t do the crime!” lol.
What advice would you give someone about to start their own migration journey?
You have to fully understand your “Why” and be prepared, but also be flexible. Things won’t always go according to plan, and that’s okay. Learn as many vital skills as possible, build a community early, be willing to start small, and remember why you started.
Do you ever see yourself returning to Nigeria? Has it been worth it, and would you do it all again?
Nigeria will always be home, and I remain deeply connected to it. Whether I return permanently or visit as much as I can afford to, home is never far from my heart. Has it been worth it? Oh Yesssss. Despite the challenges, the growth has been priceless. And yes, I would do it all again, knowing what I know now.
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